SOLR-16950 SimpleTracer propagation for manual transaction ids

[stillalex]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SOLR-16950

Description

Fix support for client side manual transaction ids on UpdateRequest.
Currently due to UpdateRequest getting recreated, the headers are lost so propagation is broken.

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