[SPARK-42572][SQL][SS] Fix behavior for StateStoreProvider.validateStateRowFormat

[WweiL]

What changes were proposed in this pull request?

#40073 accidentally changed the relationship of the two if statement in StateStoreProvider.validateStateRowFormat. Before they were inclusive, i.e.

if (a) {
  // <code>
  if (b) {
    // <code>
  }
}

It was changed to parallel, i.e.

if (a) {
  // <code>
}
if (b) {
    // <code>
}

This PR change it back to the original behavior and add a unit test to prevent it in the future.

Why are the changes needed?

As above.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

No

How was this patch tested?

Unit test

[HeartSaVioR]

+1

[HeartSaVioR]

Thanks! Merging to master.