Fix v8 gauges on hot reload

[BrynCooke]

The v8 heap usage and queue gauges were not working after hot reload.
This is because gauges MUST be created after the global meter provider is updated.
This builds on the work from #5996 by introducing an activate function to populate the gauges when we are ready.
The integration test from 5996 is extended to test for the extra metrics.

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• Tests added and passing³
  • Unit Tests
  • Integration Tests
  • Manual Tests

Exceptions

Bug fix, no docs needed
Unit tests don't capture reload of router, so this is done in integration tests.

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[router-perf]

CI performance tests

• connectors-const - Connectors stress test that runs with a constant number of users
• const - Basic stress test that runs with a constant number of users
• demand-control-instrumented - A copy of the step test, but with demand control monitoring and metrics enabled
• demand-control-uninstrumented - A copy of the step test, but with demand control monitoring enabled
• enhanced-signature - Enhanced signature enabled
• events - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED
• events_big_cap_high_rate - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity
• events_big_cap_high_rate_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity using callback mode
• events_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED in callback mode
• events_without_dedup - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED
• events_without_dedup_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED using callback mode
• extended-reference-mode - Extended reference mode enabled
• large-request - Stress test with a 1 MB request payload
• no-tracing - Basic stress test, no tracing
• reload - Reload test over a long period of time at a constant rate of users
• step-jemalloc-tuning - Clone of the basic stress test for jemalloc tuning
• step-local-metrics - Field stats that are generated from the router rather than FTV1
• step-with-prometheus - A copy of the step test with the Prometheus metrics exporter enabled
• step - Basic stress test that steps up the number of users over time
• xlarge-request - Stress test with 10 MB request payload
• xxlarge-request - Stress test with 100 MB request payload