fix(s3-request-presigner): enable overriding hoistable headers

[kuhe]

This requires codegen update to include smithy-lang/smithy-typescript#1421

This adds the hoistableHeaders configuration to s3 presigning.

This change enables the following and potentially other use cases while maintaining backwards compatibility:

const params = {
  Key: "...",
  Bucket: "...",
  ServerSideEncryption: "aws:kms",
  SSEKMSKeyId: "arn:aws:kms:us-west-2:0000:key/abcd-1234-abcd",
};
const s3Client = new S3Client();
const command = new PutObjectCommand(params);

const preSignedUrl =
  (await getSignedUrl(s3Client, command, {
    hoistableHeaders: new Set(["x-amz-server-side-encryption", "x-amz-server-side-encryption-aws-kms-key-id"]),
  }));

context: #1701