give the author a different message with link to the spam policy

app/views/posts/_expanded.html.erb

@@ -149,10 +149,13 @@
 
 	<% if post.spam_flag_pending? && user_signed_in? %>
 	<div class="notice has-margin-2">
+	  <% if post.user == current_user %>
+	  <p>Your post has been flagged by members of our community. Please review our <a href="/help/spam">guidelines for promotional content</a>.</p>
+	  <% else %>
 	  <p><strong>Possible spam:</strong> this post has pending flags for spam.  Be careful when following links.</p>
+	  <% end %>
 	</div>
 	<% end %>
-
       <% if post_type.is_public_editable && post.pending_suggested_edit? %>
         <% if check_your_post_privilege(post, 'edit_posts') %>
           <div class="notice h-p-2">