fix: deadlock when querying group members (backport #12342)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #12342 done by Mergify.
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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   x/group/internal/orm/indexer.go
	modified:   x/group/internal/orm/table.go
	modified:   x/group/internal/orm/types.go
	modified:   x/group/keeper/keeper_test.go

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	both modified:   x/group/keeper/keeper.go

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[alexanderbez]

@blushi do you think you could address the merge conflicts in x/group/keeper/keeper.go? We'll get this merged and then cut the last v0.46 RC.

cc @marbar3778

[blushi]

@blushi do you think you could address the merge conflicts in x/group/keeper/keeper.go? We'll get this merged and then cut the last v0.46 RC.

cc @marbar3778

on it