fix: check if the table option is valid according to the engine

[SkyFan2002]

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Summary

1. Check if the table option is valid according to the engine. For example, for the Fuse engine, both location and seed are invalid options.
2. When using SHOW CREATE TABLE, the external location for the Fuse engine will no longer be displayed as "LOCATION = ", to distinguish it from the table option location.

Close #17075.

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[Xuanwo]

Thank you!