Update contributing.md

[danespinosa]

updated test

Description

Updated contributing.md to specify how to test the aspire code, noting that the necessary flag to test on windows is -test not --test The screenshot below shows how --test fails with Uknown Switch vs -test that works like expected

Fixes # (issue)

Checklist

• Is this feature complete?
  • Yes. Ready to ship.
  • No. Follow-up changes expected.
• Are you including unit tests for the changes and scenario tests if relevant?
  • Yes
  • No
• Did you add public API?
  • Yes
    • If yes, did you have an API Review for it?
      • Yes
      • No
    • Did you add <remarks /> and <code /> elements on your triple slash comments?
      • Yes
      • No
  • No
• Does the change make any security assumptions or guarantees?
  • Yes
    • If yes, have you done a threat model and had a security review?
      • Yes
      • No
  • No
• Does the change require an update in our Aspire docs?
  • Yes
    • Link to aspire-docs issue (consider using one of the following templates):
      • New (or update) doc-idea template
      • New breaking-change template
      • New diagnostic template
  • No

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Pull Request Overview

This PR updates the contributing guide to use the correct test flag on Windows by replacing --test with -test.

• Correct Windows build script invocation to use a single hyphen flag