Add page reload on circuit resume failure for remote pauses

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Add page reload on circuit resume failure for remote pauses

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Simplified version of #64290 applying fixes from fce8418 without graceful pause handling

Description

In .NET 10, circuit resume fails after server restart without persistent storage. Current behavior shows reconnection UI requiring manual page reload, regressing from .NET 9's automatic reload.

Changes:

• DefaultReconnectDisplay.ts: Renamed reloadButton → retryButton for consistency with button text
• UserSpecifiedDisplay.ts: Track remote property and include it in resume-failed events
• ReconnectModal.razor.js: Auto-reload on resume-failed when remote === true, indicating server-initiated pause

Flow:

Server restart → reconnect fails → resume attempted with remote: true → resume fails → resume-failed event fires with remote: true → page reloads automatically

Restores .NET 9 behavior for local development scenarios.

Fixes #64228

Original prompt

Create a simplified PR from #64290 that doesn't include the graceful changes and that only contains the fixes in fce8418 and where this change
} else if (event.detail.state === "rejected" || (event.detail.state === "resume-failed" && !!event.detail.graceful)) { checks for the .remote property (remote == true) instead

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[snympi]

@javiercn was this change committed?

[javiercn]

@snympi No.

This was me playing with some stuff. The original PR is tracking the fix.