[7.9] Only check that the event ids are the same in arrays (#72624)

[jonathan-buttner]

Backports the following commits to 7.9:

• Only check that the event ids are the same in arrays ([Security Solution][Resolver] Check event id instead of full lifecycle events #72624)

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