Add fatal JVM error handling #8279
Description
We reverted #7987 due to incompatibility with Java versions below 8u92 (we support 8u60), but it would still be nice to immediately exit the JVM on OOME, or in general, any java.lang.Error.
Elasticsearch has their own mechanism for handling this (elastic/elasticsearch#19272), and it looks good, so we maybe should copy it. Hat tip to @jasontedor for pointing it out to me.
I like ES's approach because it handles more than just OOME.