chore[devtools]: use react-window from npm and bump react-virtualized…

…-auto-sizer to ^1.0.23 (#28408)

1. Bumps `react-virtualized-auto-sizer` to 1.0.23, which has a fix for
cases with multiple realms -
bvaughn/react-virtualized-auto-sizer#82
2. Removes `react-window` from react-devtools-shared/src/node_modules,
now listed as dependency in `package.json` and bumped to 1.8.10

Tested:
- Chrome extension
- Standalone shell with RN

packages/react-devtools-shared/package.json

@@ -23,6 +23,7 @@
  "local-storage-fallback": "^4.1.1",
  "lodash.throttle": "^4.1.1",
  "memoize-one": "^3.1.1",
- "react-virtualized-auto-sizer": "^1.0.6"
+ "react-virtualized-auto-sizer": "^1.0.23",
+ "react-window": "^1.8.10"
  }
 }