Update build configs for ANGLE, vulkan-deps, and SwiftShader roll

[loic-sharma]

Our tests depend on the Xcb and Wayland Vulkan extensions that are provided by SwiftShader. The latest version of SwiftShader now requires you to opt-in to these extensions through build flags: https://github.com/google/swiftshader/blob/aae98adc2222dcada4aa952cccad48ab08e34004/src/WSI/BUILD.gn#L39-L56

See: flutter/engine#38650

Part of: flutter/flutter#117932

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