Add support for eager tasks

[bdraco]

Proposed change

python 3.12 supports eager tasks

• https://docs.python.org/3/library/asyncio-task.html#eager-task-factory
• Add eager task creation API to asyncio python/cpython#97696

There are lots of places were we are unlikely to suspend, but we might suspend so we don't replace with an loop of awaits. In this case creating an eager task makes sense instead. eager start support will be great for reducing latency of icons and translation loading via websocket since we have to create a task in the very rare event they aren't loaded yet.

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[bdraco]

We have races in
FAILED tests/components/netatmo/test_init.py::test_setup_component_with_config - assert 8 == 10 FAILED tests/components/eafm/test_sensor.py::test_unload_entry - AttributeError: 'NoneType' object has no attribute 'state' ERROR tests/components/dlna_dmr/test_media_player.py::test_poll_availability - AssertionError

Not so bad.

I'm going to take the entity changes out as they can be sorted out in a future PR

Let's start with websocket tasks instead

[bdraco]

The web socket latency reduction is awesome. The second group now arrives 1ms later than the first group instead of 30ms later

[bdraco]

Assuming the CI passes, I'll pull everything out that actually changes something to an eager task, add coverage, and do follow ups PRs to convert specific areas starting with the websocket

[bdraco]

This would probably help service calls a lot

[bdraco]

            self._hass.async_create_task(
                self._run_service_call_catch_exceptions(coro, service_call),
                f"service call background {service_call.domain}.{service_call.service}",
                eager_start=True,
            )

seems to work ok

[bdraco]

websocket latency reduction can sometimes even deliver in the same millis

[bdraco]

functional testing on 3.11 looks good. I know its going away soon, but fallback still needs to work for a bit