Update Java and Gradle dependencies

[fab-10]

PR description

Fixed Issue(s)

2 small changes are required after the update, to adapt to the change in the way assertThat(response).usingRecursiveComparison() works, and a new field in the Suppliers::memoize class that increment the memory size of pending txs.

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[jflo]

Couple of surprising files to be modified in here