fix(messaging, android): repair crash handling remote notifications

[mikehardy]

Description

WritableNativeMap has a check to see if it is consumed or not when it is used,
to prevent resolving a Promise in native code then attempting to modify it.

We may use the same WritableNativeMap object twice though when handling deferred
initial notifications. Crash repair is to store a copy so the Maps are distinct

Related issues

Fixes #5231

Release Summary

conventional commit

Checklist

• I read the Contributor Guide and followed the process outlined there for submitting PRs.
  • Yes
• My change supports the following platforms;
  • Android
  • iOS
• My change includes tests;
  • e2e tests added or updated in packages/\*\*/e2e
  • jest tests added or updated in packages/\*\*/__tests__
• I have updated TypeScript types that are affected by my change.
• This is a breaking change;
  • Yes
  • No

Test Plan

Hard to test - will rely on @xxsnakerxx for reports on whether it happens or not, they appear to have a customer with a reproduction case

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