CAPI 1.9, k8s/* 0.31, controller-runtime 0.19, controller-tools 0.16.5

[wikkyk]

Issue #, if available:
Deprecates #361 #380 #385 #387

Description of changes:
Updates:

• sigs.k8s.io/cluster-api* to 1.9.*
• k8s.io/* to 0.31.*
• sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime to 0.19.*
• controller-gen to 0.16.5 (the last version for go 1.22, further updates pending go 1.23 migration)
• deps

CRDs and RBAC regenerated with new controller-gen against new APIs.

e2e config updated for CAPI 1.9.

Testing performed:
the usual

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Note: This PR changes the following non-go, non-docs files:
config/crd/bases/infrastructure.cluster.x-k8s.io_proxmoxclusters.yaml
config/crd/bases/infrastructure.cluster.x-k8s.io_proxmoxclustertemplates.yaml
config/crd/bases/infrastructure.cluster.x-k8s.io_proxmoxmachines.yaml
config/crd/bases/infrastructure.cluster.x-k8s.io_proxmoxmachinetemplates.yaml
config/rbac/role.yaml

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go.mod
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[wikkyk]

The errors need to get properly migrated.

https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/cluster-api/blob/main/docs/proposals/20240916-improve-status-in-CAPI-resources.md

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
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100.0% Coverage on New Code
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