support file mode and last modified time for ipfs add

[kstuart]

support added for options:
--preserve-mtime - stores the files last modified time
--preserve-mode - stores the files mode
--mtime - stores a custom last modified time
--mtime-nsecs - stores custom mtime nanoseconds

relates to ipfs/kubo/issues/6920

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