Update conda recipes to UCX 1.13.0 (rapidsai#4809)

Authors:
  - Peter Andreas Entschev (https://github.com/pentschev)

Approvers:
  - Ray Douglass (https://github.com/raydouglass)
  - Dante Gama Dessavre (https://github.com/dantegd)

URL: rapidsai#4809

conda/recipes/libcuml/conda_build_config.yaml

@@ -17,7 +17,7 @@ nccl_version:
   - ">=2.9.9"
 
 ucx_version:
-  - "1.12.1"
+  - "1.13.0"
 
 treelite_version:
   - "2.4.0"