Upgrade native-build-tools version to 0.9.10

[mraible]

This fixes "command is too long" on Windows. graalvm/setup-graalvm#6 (comment)

Related: we might be able to change this line:

if (process.env.GITHUB_ACTIONS) {
  buildArgs.push('--verbose', process.platform === 'darwin' ? '-J-Xmx13g' : '-J-Xmx7g');
}

to:

if (process.env.GITHUB_ACTIONS) {
  buildArgs.push('--verbose', '-J-Xmx10g');
}

This works for me on macOS, Windows, and Linux. See this build for proof. You can see my pom.xml setting too.