feat: upgrade arrow (to 53) & datafusion (to 42)

[westonpace]

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[wjones127]

Excellent work. Thank you!

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Attention: Patch coverage is 70.12987% with 23 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 78.66%. Comparing base (6edb1b8) to head (2a63d5e).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
rust/lance/src/utils/tfrecord.rs	0.00%	11 Missing ⚠️
rust/lance-core/src/error.rs	0.00%	6 Missing ⚠️
rust/lance-datafusion/src/substrait.rs	89.28%	3 Missing ⚠️
rust/lance-arrow/src/lib.rs	90.47%	2 Missing ⚠️
rust/lance-encoding-datafusion/src/zone.rs	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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[westonpace]

@wjones127 it appears the newer version of substrait (required by the newer version of datafusion) now has optional fields which bumps our minimum protobuf-compiler version up to "something more recent than 3.12" where 3.12 is the default on Ubuntu 22.04. I've changed our Java CI to use Ubuntu 24 now but I think this will cause headaches in the future for users. I think we should proceed for now but wanted to give you a heads up.

[westonpace]

I'll make a ticket. I think we can maybe work around the issue by adding --experimental_allow_proto3_optional. Also, to be clear, this would only affect Rust users (but will affect lancedb rust users once we update lancedb).