musl support

[topi314]

This pr adds full musl support (x86-64 & aarch64) in lavadsp & lavaplayer and also contains the darwin fix from #865

ToDo:

• Final testing
  - [ ] JDA-NAS musl
• Alpine docker image
• Smaller docker image sizes by removing unneeded natives

[topi314]

We tested this on the following hard & software now

some stuff is still unsupported/unavailable on some configurations, but those are pretty niche

Operating System	Architecture	Lavaplayer	JDA-NAS	Timescale	AVX2
linux	x86-64	✅	✅	✅	✅
linux	x86	✅	✅	✅	✅
linux	arm	✅	✅	✅	❌
linux	armhf	✅	❌	❌	❌
linux	aarch32	✅	❌	❌	❌
linux	aarch64	✅	✅	✅	❌
linux-musl	x86-64	✅	❌	✅	✅
linux-musl	aarch64	✅	❌	✅	❌
windows	x86-64	✅	✅	✅	✅
Windows	x86	✅	✅	✅	✅
darwin	x86-64	✅	✅	✅	✅
darwin	aarch64e	✅	✅	✅	❌