[BC Break] Migrate useDelete and useDeleteMany to react query

[fzaninotto]

• Update useDelete and useDeleteMany to use react-query
• Replace onSuccess and onFailure <DeleteButton> props with mutationOptions
• Fix tests, docs and examples
• Add upgrade instructions

// useDelete
-const [deleteOne, { loading }] = useDelete(
-   'posts',
-   123,
-   { id: 123, title: "hello, world", likes: 122 }
-);
-deleteOne(resource, id, previousData, options);
+const [deleteOne, { isLoading }] = useDelete(
+   'posts',
+   {
+       id: 123,
+       previousData: { id: 123, title: "hello, world", likes: 122 }
+   }
+);
+deleteOne(resource, { id, previousData }, options);

// useDeleteMany
-const [deleteMany, { loading }] = useDeleteMany(
-   'posts',
-   [123, 456],
-);
-deleteMany(resource, ids, options);
+const [deleteMany, { isLoading }] = useDeleteMany(
+   'posts',
+   {
+       ids: [123, 456],
+   }
+);
+deleteMany(resource, { ids }, options);