Add Apple Silicon build and Universal build for macOS

[alanrenmsft]

In this PR, I updated the build scripts/pipeline definitions to produce builds for Apple Silicon and Universal App that runs on both Intel Chip and Apple Silicon.
build for testing: https://mssqltools.visualstudio.com/CrossPlatBuildScripts/_build/results?buildId=174262&view=results

I'd like to get the insider version out and ask the users to try it out before the Nov release. In the meanwhile, I will continue working on these tasks that are related but not blocking:
#20792
#20775

Testing:

1. The main features like connection, azure, query editor, notebook, OE, dashboard, dacpac, schema compare...
2. The release process: newly produced files can be handled by the update server, I was able to download them during my testing. I'll work with Erica to get the new links added to the release process.

Also noticed that the Notebook Python kernel is not working on M1 regardless of the ADS flavor that I use, tried all 3 flavors, but it is not a new issue: #18186
@chlafreniere please let me know if you need a M1 mac to fix the issue.

[coveralls]

Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 3223120770

• 0 of 0 changed or added relevant lines in 0 files are covered.
• 27 unchanged lines in 2 files lost coverage.
• Overall coverage decreased (-0.004%) to 42.345%

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Files with Coverage Reduction	New Missed Lines	%
src/sql/workbench/services/connection/browser/connectionManagementService.ts	7	70.94%
src/sql/workbench/contrib/commandLine/electron-browser/commandLine.ts	20	72.65%

Totals
Change from base Build 3208267175:	-0.004%
Covered Lines:	29389
Relevant Lines:	64576

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