fix the infinite loop on getListOfKernelsWithCachedConnection

[andyscho]

Fixes #15251

If running with cache and hit a failure (either when resolving initial promise or the listKernelsFromConnection), run again ignoring the cache. Don't loop repeatedly or perform more retries, though if this is desired, it can be changed.

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