pythongh-126455: Disallow _ssl.SSLSocket instantiation (pythonGH-126481)

Prevent creation of incomplete/invalid _ssl.SSLSocket objects when
created directly.
(cherry picked from commit b1c4ffc)

Co-authored-by: Victor Stinner <vstinner@python.org>

Modules/_ssl.c

@@ -2900,7 +2900,7 @@ static PyType_Spec PySSLSocket_spec = {
     .name = "_ssl._SSLSocket",
     .basicsize = sizeof(PySSLSocket),
     .flags = (Py_TPFLAGS_DEFAULT | Py_TPFLAGS_IMMUTABLETYPE |
-              Py_TPFLAGS_HAVE_GC),
+              Py_TPFLAGS_HAVE_GC | Py_TPFLAGS_DISALLOW_INSTANTIATION),
     .slots = PySSLSocket_slots,
 };