Update dependancies to latest versions

[jamestrotter]

📝 Checklist

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• Code has been linted with the proper rules.
  i believe this is true, let me know if not

📄 Description

I went to make a minor change to update the /say command response to include the message to be said, in case someone misses it they can still read it. Whilst doing this I noticed it was flaky as to whether it would pick up a message inside a voice channel, and on deeper inspection realised that the dependencies were from before discord even had that feature.

Therefore I updated all the dependencies and then fixed any breaking changes.

When it comes to the choice lists I cheated and created a util function to change them from an older format to new rather than changing all the arrays to objects by hand.

Note that the text changes I originally made are only in the English localization (because I do not speak the other languages and don't want to butcher it with a translate tool) and are a subjective improvement. Let me know if you want me to remove them from this PR but you still want the upgrades. If this is a wanted change it probably needs someone who can write in the other languages to make the same change before this is merged, for completeness sake.

📌 Does this PR address any issue?

#78 - but for English language only

[jamestrotter]

Didn't notice this had the CI task - the linting was wrong also. I've pushed a change for both (the linting changed more than just my files due to linter upgrades).

Tested the CI action on my fork and it passes now.

[moonstar-x]

Hi there,

Wow this is quite large, thank you for your help with this.

Since this is big, especially because it updates discord.js to a newer major release, I'll take some time to check this out during this upcoming weekend.

Will keep you posted! 🤙🏻

[jamestrotter]

Makes sense - I'm running this on my server and have noticed a couple differences over what I was running previously. I'll keep adding to this if I spot other changes

• Ephemeral replies are working where they might not have been before- the /say command didn't used to have the ephemeral quality in discord, but the flag was definitely set in code. When I updated discord.js it fixed this but I didn't want it to be ephemeral because of my other change, I've made a code change to revert this back to non-ephemeral
• The bot now auto-joins when you type in a voice channel set as a TTS channel, it wasn't doing this before, it had to be summoned with /say before it would work

[jamestrotter]

I think this may also resolve #94 as I was seeing similar issues in my testing before upgrading - it seemed to be a intermittent bug, e.g. I would never see the issue when running it in my docker environment but would often see it when running it in a local terminal when debugging