[fix](group commit) make group commit cancel in time (apache#36249)

## Proposed changes

If group commit time interval is larger than the load timeout, and there
is no new client load to reuse the internal group commit load, the group
commit can not cancel in time because it stuck in wait:
```
#0  0x00007f33937a47aa in pthread_cond_timedwait@@GLIBC_2.3.2 () from /lib64/libpthread.so.0
#1  0x00005651105dbd05 in __gthread_cond_timedwait(pthread_cond_t*, pthread_mutex_t*, timespec const*) ()
#2  0x000056511063f385 in std::__condvar::wait_until(std::mutex&, timespec&) ()
#3  0x000056511063dc2e in std::cv_status std::condition_variable::__wait_until_impl<std::chrono::duration<long, std::ratio<1l, 1000000000l> > >(std::unique_lock<std::mutex>&, std::chrono::time_point<std::chrono::_V2::system_clock, std::chrono::duration<long, std::ratio<1l, 1000000000l> > > const&) ()
#4  0x000056511063cedf in std::cv_status std::condition_variable::wait_until<std::chrono::_V2::steady_clock, std::chrono::duration<long, std::ratio<1l, 1000000000l> > >(std::unique_lock<std::mutex>&, std::chrono::time_point<std::chrono::_V2::steady_clock, std::chrono::duration<long, std::ratio<1l, 1000000000l> > > const&) ()
#5  0x0000565110824f48 in std::cv_status std::condition_variable::wait_for<long, std::ratio<1l, 1000l> >(std::unique_lock<std::mutex>&, std::chrono::duration<long, std::ratio<1l, 1000l> > const&) ()
#6  0x0000565113b5612a in doris::LoadBlockQueue::get_block(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*, bool*) ()
apache#7  0x000056513f900941 in doris::pipeline::GroupCommitOperatorX::get_block(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) ()
apache#8  0x000056513c69c0b6 in doris::pipeline::ScanOperatorX<doris::pipeline::GroupCommitLocalState>::get_block_after_projects(doris::RuntimeState*, doris::vectorized::Block*, bool*) ()
apache#9  0x000056514009d5f1 in doris::pipeline::PipelineTask::execute(bool*) ()
apache#10 0x00005651400fb24a in doris::pipeline::TaskScheduler::_do_work(unsigned long) ()
```

be/src/runtime/group_commit_mgr.cpp

@@ -149,7 +149,7 @@ Status LoadBlockQueue::get_block(RuntimeState* runtime_state, vectorized::Block*
                           << ", runtime_state=" << runtime_state;
             }
         }
-        _get_cond.wait_for(l, std::chrono::milliseconds(left_milliseconds));
+        _get_cond.wait_for(l, std::chrono::milliseconds(std::min(left_milliseconds, 10000L)));
     }
     if (runtime_state->is_cancelled()) {
         auto st = runtime_state->cancel_reason();

regression-test/suites/insert_p0/test_group_commit_timeout.groovy

@@ -0,0 +1,55 @@
+// Licensed to the Apache Software Foundation (ASF) under one
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+//
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+
+suite("test_group_commit_timeout", "nonConcurrent") {
+    def tableName = "test_group_commit_timeout"
+    sql """
+        CREATE TABLE if not exists ${tableName} (
+            `id` int(11) NOT NULL,
+            `name` varchar(100) NULL,
+            `score` int(11) NULL default "-1"
+        ) ENGINE=OLAP
+        DUPLICATE KEY(`id`)
+        DISTRIBUTED BY HASH(`id`) BUCKETS 1
+        PROPERTIES (
+            "replication_num" = "1",
+            "group_commit_interval_ms" = "300000"
+        );
+    """
+
+    def query_timeout = sql """show variables where variable_name = 'query_timeout';"""
+    def insert_timeout = sql """show variables where variable_name = 'insert_timeout';"""
+    logger.info("query_timeout: ${query_timeout}, insert_timeout: ${insert_timeout}")
+
+    long start = System.currentTimeMillis()
+    try {
+        sql "SET global query_timeout = 5"
+        sql "SET global insert_timeout = 5"
+
+        sql "set group_commit = sync_mode"
+        sql "insert into ${tableName} values(1, 'a', 10)"
+        assertTrue(false)
+    } catch (Exception e) {
+        long end = System.currentTimeMillis()
+        logger.info("failed " + e.getMessage())
+        assertTrue(e.getMessage().contains("FragmentMgr cancel worker going to cancel timeout instance"))
+        assertTrue(end - start <= 60000)
+    } finally {
+        sql "SET global query_timeout = ${query_timeout[0][1]}"
+        sql "SET global insert_timeout = ${insert_timeout[0][1]}"
+    }
+}