Include server_startup_timeout_ms in config docs #3639

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check_features (azure)	49s
build sccache x86_64-unknown-linux-musl	6m 7s
check_features (gcs)	47s
build sccache-dist x86_64-unknown-linux-musl	4m 54s
coverage ubuntu-20.04 rust nightly	4m 42s
check_features (gha)	38s
build sccache aarch64-unknown-linux-musl	6m 14s
build sccache armv7-unknown-linux-musleabi	6m 9s
coverage macOS-11 rust nightly	10m 27s
check_features (memcached)	41s
build sccache i686-unknown-linux-musl	6m 20s
check_features (redis)	41s
build sccache x86_64-apple-darwin	14m 13s
check_features (s3)	44s
clippy ubuntu-latest	1m 31s
build sccache aarch64-apple-darwin	5m 43s
check_features (webdav)	35s
build sccache x86_64-pc-windows-msvc	15m 35s
clippy macOS-latest	2m 26s
clippy windows-latest	2m 59s
rustfmt ubuntu-latest	12s
toml_format	7s
test freebsd-13.2 rust stable (ubuntu-22.04)	8m 24s
test ubuntu-20.04 rust 1.70.0	2m 53s
test ubuntu-22.04 rust 1.70.0 dist-server	3m 29s
test ubuntu-20.04 rust stable	2m 14s
test ubuntu-20.04 rust beta	2m 25s
test ubuntu-20.04 rust nightly	2m 21s
test ubuntu-20.04 rust stable no-default-features	1m 33s
test ubuntu-22.04 rust stable	2m 31s
test macOS-11 rust stable	6m 57s
test macos-14 rust stable	2m 21s
test windows-2019 rust 1.70.0	4m 42s
test windows-2019 rust nightly	5m 25s
test windows-2019 rust beta	5m 14s
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