[DataGrid] Create a new lookup with all the filtered rows, collapsed or not

[flaviendelangle]

Duplicate from #3715 to try fixing a CI issue

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Part of #3610

I will modify the default behavior in #3610 or in a standalone PR if #3610 is merged before so that the CSV export has the collapsed rows by default.

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In term of naming, we are stuck before v6 with our current "visible" prefix which is not great.
So right now we have:

• visible => all the rows given to the pagination process, they pass the filtering process AND they are not collapsed.
• filtered => all the rows that pass the filtering process, whether they are collapsed or not.

We should find a better name than visible in v6 and keep visible for the use case where we are talking about the rows currently displayed on the screen.

[mui-bot]

These are the results for the performance tests:

Test case	Unit	Min	Max	Median	Mean	σ
Filter 100k rows	ms	177.2	517	300.2	299.18	123.122
Sort 100k rows	ms	344.8	886	654.5	630.6	191.18
Select 100k rows	ms	229.3	377.2	348.8	311.8	61.21
Deselect 100k rows	ms	139.7	220.9	169.7	177.14	26.535

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