Update most of the dependencies to their latest versions

[SomeoneToIgnore]

All non-trivial updates extracted into separate commits, also carho hakari data and its manifest format were updated.

3 sets of crates remain unupdated:

• base64 — touches proxy in a lot of places and changed its api (by 0.21 version) quite strongly since our version (0.13).
• opentelemetry and opentelemetry-* crates

error[E0308]: mismatched types
  --> libs/tracing-utils/src/http.rs:65:21
   |
65 |     span.set_parent(parent_ctx);
   |          ---------- ^^^^^^^^^^ expected struct `opentelemetry_api::context::Context`, found struct `opentelemetry::Context`
   |          |
   |          arguments to this method are incorrect
   |
   = note: struct `opentelemetry::Context` and struct `opentelemetry_api::context::Context` have similar names, but are actually distinct types
note: struct `opentelemetry::Context` is defined in crate `opentelemetry_api`
  --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/opentelemetry_api-0.19.0/src/context.rs:77:1
   |
77 | pub struct Context {
   | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
note: struct `opentelemetry_api::context::Context` is defined in crate `opentelemetry_api`
  --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/opentelemetry_api-0.18.0/src/context.rs:77:1
   |
77 | pub struct Context {
   | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
   = note: perhaps two different versions of crate `opentelemetry_api` are being used?
note: associated function defined here
  --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/tracing-opentelemetry-0.18.0/src/span_ext.rs:43:8
   |
43 |     fn set_parent(&self, cx: Context);
   |        ^^^^^^^^^^

For more information about this error, try `rustc --explain E0308`.
error: could not compile `tracing-utils` due to previous error
warning: build failed, waiting for other jobs to finish...
error: could not compile `tracing-utils` due to previous error

tracing-opentelemetry of version 0.19 is not yet released, that is supposed to have the update we need.

• similarly, rustls, tokio-rustls, rustls-* and tls-listener crates have similar issue:

error[E0308]: mismatched types
   --> libs/postgres_backend/tests/simple_select.rs:112:78
    |
112 |     let mut make_tls_connect = tokio_postgres_rustls::MakeRustlsConnect::new(client_cfg);
    |                                --------------------------------------------- ^^^^^^^^^^ expected struct `rustls::client::client_conn::ClientConfig`, found struct `ClientConfig`
    |                                |
    |                                arguments to this function are incorrect
    |
    = note: struct `ClientConfig` and struct `rustls::client::client_conn::ClientConfig` have similar names, but are actually distinct types
note: struct `ClientConfig` is defined in crate `rustls`
   --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/rustls-0.21.0/src/client/client_conn.rs:125:1
    |
125 | pub struct ClientConfig {
    | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
note: struct `rustls::client::client_conn::ClientConfig` is defined in crate `rustls`
   --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/rustls-0.20.8/src/client/client_conn.rs:91:1
    |
91  | pub struct ClientConfig {
    | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    = note: perhaps two different versions of crate `rustls` are being used?
note: associated function defined here
   --> /Users/someonetoignore/.cargo/registry/src/github.com-1ecc6299db9ec823/tokio-postgres-rustls-0.9.0/src/lib.rs:23:12
    |
23  |     pub fn new(config: ClientConfig) -> Self {
    |            ^^^

For more information about this error, try `rustc --explain E0308`.
error: could not compile `postgres_backend` due to previous error
warning: build failed, waiting for other jobs to finish...

• aws crates: I could not make new API to work with bucket endpoint overload, and console e2e tests failed.
  Other our tests passed, further investigation is worth to be done in Update aws related crates #4008

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Test results for 10c8ee0:

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debug build: 212 tests run: 202 passed, 0 failed, 10 (full report)

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release build: 212 tests run: 202 passed, 0 failed, 10 (full report)

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[SomeoneToIgnore]

Cloud e2e tests got broken due to odd endpoint handling, working on that.

[SomeoneToIgnore]

I've reverted aws-related changes and created a separate issue for that with the progress I've got on that front
#4008