doc: clarify when child process 'spawn' event is *not* emitted

Making this clarification in response to a comment on GitHub:
#35288 (comment)

PR-URL: #37833
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Benjamin Gruenbaum <benjamingr@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>

Author: zenflow

doc/api/child_process.md

@@ -1088,6 +1088,8 @@ added: REPLACEME
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 The `'spawn'` event is emitted once the child process has spawned successfully.
+If the child process does not spawn successfully, the `'spawn'` event is not
+emitted and the `'error'` event is emitted instead.
 
 If emitted, the `'spawn'` event comes before all other events and before any
 data is received via `stdout` or `stderr`.