Call the callback for writes that occur after the stream is closed.
This also requires changes to the code to not call `.destroy()`
on the stream in `.on('end')`, and to ignore chunks written
afterwards.

Previously, these writes would just queue up silently, as their
`_write()` callback would never have been called.

Fixes: nodejs#30976

Co-Authored-By: Denys Otrishko <9109612+lundibundi@users.noreply.github.com>

Co-Authored-By: Ben Noordhuis <info@bnoordhuis.nl>