[Backport] [2.x] Support OpenSSL Provider with default Netty allocator (#5460)

[reta]

Backport of #5460 to 2.x

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Gradle Check (Jenkins) Run Completed with:

• RESULT: FAILURE ❌
• URL: https://build.ci.opensearch.org/job/gradle-check/7830/
• CommitID: d9aeff7
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Gradle Check (Jenkins) Run Completed with:

• RESULT: SUCCESS ✅
• URL: https://build.ci.opensearch.org/job/gradle-check/7831/
• CommitID: 1863854

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #5499 (1863854) into 2.x (8fc8926) will decrease coverage by 0.04%.
The diff coverage is 18.51%.

@@             Coverage Diff              @@
##                2.x    #5499      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     70.73%   70.68%   -0.05%     
+ Complexity    58393    58354      -39     
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  Files          4700     4701       +1     
  Lines        279100   279123      +23     
  Branches      40753    40754       +1     
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- Hits         197412   197289     -123     
- Misses        65207    65407     +200     
+ Partials      16481    16427      -54     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...search/transport/Netty4NioServerSocketChannel.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
.../java/org/opensearch/transport/NettyAllocator.java	45.45% <0.00%> (ø)
...va/org/opensearch/common/bytes/BytesReference.java	88.57% <100.00%> (+6.75%)	⬆️
...cluster/coordination/PendingClusterStateStats.java	20.00% <0.00%> (-48.00%)	⬇️
...rch/client/transport/NoNodeAvailableException.java	28.57% <0.00%> (-42.86%)	⬇️
...h/action/ingest/SimulateDocumentVerboseResult.java	60.71% <0.00%> (-39.29%)	⬇️
...rg/opensearch/index/shard/ShardSplittingQuery.java	35.87% <0.00%> (-38.94%)	⬇️
.../java/org/opensearch/transport/TransportStats.java	39.13% <0.00%> (-32.61%)	⬇️
...nsearch/search/aggregations/metrics/ParsedMin.java	71.42% <0.00%> (-28.58%)	⬇️
.../java/org/opensearch/index/reindex/RemoteInfo.java	51.37% <0.00%> (-27.53%)	⬇️
... and 468 more

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