gazebo11: use new tbb and recent patch

[scpeters]

Use patch from gazebosim/gazebo-classic#3174 and switch to the current version of tbb.

[scpeters]

build bottle

[scpeters]

build bottle

[Blast545]

👨‍🌾 It seems this PR caused a build regression in the homewbrew gazebo11 buildfarm, see:
https://build.osrfoundation.org/job/gazebo-ci-gazebo11-homebrew-amd64/129/

It seems the patch is not being applied properly, as there are a lot of tbb.h deprecation warnings in the log.

[scpeters]

👨‍🌾 It seems this PR caused a build regression in the homewbrew gazebo11 buildfarm, see: https://build.osrfoundation.org/job/gazebo-ci-gazebo11-homebrew-amd64/129/

It seems the patch is not being applied properly, as there are a lot of tbb.h deprecation warnings in the log.

that build ran before this was merged. I think https://build.osrfoundation.org/job/gazebo-ci-gazebo11-homebrew-amd64/130/ may have better luck

[traversaro]

👨‍🌾 It seems this PR caused a build regression in the homewbrew gazebo11 buildfarm, see:
https://build.osrfoundation.org/job/gazebo-ci-gazebo11-homebrew-amd64/129/

It seems the patch is not being applied properly, as there are a lot of tbb.h deprecation warnings in the log.

To be honest I did not check if in the tbb >= 2021 case there where zero deprecation warnings, so the issue could be in the patch as it is, not in how it is applied.