fix(net) make sure to always end the connection when destroy is called

[cirospaciari]

What does this PR do?

Fix: #13411

• Documentation or TypeScript types (it's okay to leave the rest blank in this case)
• Code changes

How did you verify your code works?

Test added

[robobun]

❌ @cirospaciari, your commit 9fd8872 has 8 failures in #2049:

test/integration/mysql2/mysql2.test.ts - 2 failing on 🐧 22.04 aarch64

test/js/bun/http/serve.test.ts - segmentation fault on 🪟 x64

test/js/bun/http/serve.test.ts - segmentation fault on 🪟 x64-baseline

test/cli/install/registry/bun-install-registry.test.ts - 3 failing on 🪟 x64

test/cli/install/registry/bun-install-registry.test.ts - 3 failing on 🪟 x64-baseline

test/cli/watch/watch.test.ts - timeout on 🪟 x64

test/cli/watch/watch.test.ts - timeout on 🪟 x64-baseline

test/cli/hot/watch.test.ts - 1 failing on 🪟 x64

test/cli/hot/watch.test.ts - 1 failing on 🪟 x64-baseline

test/cli/hot/hot.test.ts - 2 failing on 🪟 x64

test/cli/hot/hot.test.ts - 3 failing on 🪟 x64-baseline

test/js/bun/test/mock/mock-module.test.ts - segmentation fault on 🪟 x64-baseline

test/js/bun/test/mock/mock-module.test.ts - segmentation fault on 🪟 x64

test/js/web/streams/streams.test.js - 1 failing on 🍎 14 x64

test/js/web/streams/streams.test.js - 1 failing on 🍎 13 x64