ebs: calc full snapshot size and report backup size for failed backup (#5007)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #5007

What problem does this PR solve?

Closes #4993

What is changed and how does it work?

1. Backup size attribute of a backup CR is now the expected size after restore instead of the delta.
2. Backup size will be reported for both successful and failed ebs backup job
3. No need to recalculate backupsize at clean time

Code changes

• Has Go code change
• Has CI related scripts change

Tests

• Unit test
• E2E test
• Manual test
• No code

Side effects

• Breaking backward compatibility
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Related changes

• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch
• Need to update the documentation

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