sec: bump some go mod and binaries (#5950)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #5950

What problem does this PR solve?

• rclone: v1.57.0 --> v1.68.1

• shush: v1.4.0 --> v1.5.5

• go.opentelemetry.io/contrib/instrumentation/google.golang.org/grpc/otelgrpc: v0.35.0 --> v0.46.0

What is changed and how does it work?

Code changes

• Has Go code change
• Has CI related scripts change

Tests

• Unit test
• E2E test
• Manual test
• No code

Side effects

• Breaking backward compatibility
• Other side effects:

Related changes

• Need to cherry-pick to the release branch
• Need to update the documentation

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 63.45%. Comparing base (c23a794) to head (bfba07c).
Report is 7 commits behind head on release-1.6.

Additional details and impacted files

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##           release-1.6    #5951      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage        57.20%   63.45%   +6.24%     
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  Files              259      262       +3     
  Lines            33233    45423   +12190     
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+ Hits             19010    28821    +9811     
- Misses           12290    14660    +2370     
- Partials          1933     1942       +9     

Flag	Coverage Δ
e2e	47.07% <ø> (?)
unittest	57.04% <ø> (-0.16%)	⬇️

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