Clean up options used in store/tikv

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This is a tracking issue of the big task #22513

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The options (store/tikv/kv/option.go) have now been moved to store/tikv. However, this usage pattern of options was created due to the limitations of TiDB and now we have a large number of direct references to these enumerations in other packages of tidb. We would like to move the usage of options out of store/tikv.

Specifically we need to:

• Use concrete member variables instead of values in map of interface{}
• Use a concrete method for setting the option
• Ensure that the option eum are only used in tidb (not in store/tikv)
• Adapt options to concrete variables in store/driver/txn.

You may refer to the technique we used in #23873 as an example.

• BinlogInfo
• SchemaChecker
• IsolationLevel
• Priority
• NotFillCache
• SyncLog
• KeyOnly
• Pessimistic
• SnapshotTS
• ReplicaRead
• TaskID
• InfoSchema
• CollectRuntimeStats
• SchemaAmender
• SampleStep
• CommitHook
• EnableAsyncCommit
• Enable1PC
• GuaranteeLinearizability
• TxnScope
• IsStalenessReadOnly
• MatchStoreLabels
• KVFilter