stmtsummary: fix issue of concurrent map read and write (#35367)

[ti-srebot]

cherry-pick #35367 to release-5.4
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Signed-off-by: crazycs520 crazycs520@gmail.com

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #35340

Problem Summary: statements_summary has concurrent map read and write

What is changed and how it works?

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[ti-srebot]

/run-all-tests

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/run-all-tests

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/run-all-tests

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Code Coverage Details: https://codecov.io/github/pingcap/tidb/commit/c6d3264048732527206902820e1f2ec9e5681f7e

[hawkingrei]

/merge

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Commit hash: c6d3264

[mornyx]

/run-all-tests