parser: support the ordered_hash_join hint

[Reminiscent]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #35439

Problem Summary:
Now, the hash_join hint can not determined which table is the build or probe side. So we introduce a new hint ordered_hash_join to support the hint which can determine the build and probe side for the hash join.

What is changed and how it works?

Only support the parser part for the ordered_hash_join hint.

Check List

Tests

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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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