planner: introduce the variable tidb_opt_advanced_join_hint

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What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #35439

Problem Summary:
introduce the variable tidb_opt_advanced_join_hint

What is changed and how it works?

1. introduce the variable tidb_opt_advanced_join_hint
2. make join order hint and join method hint compatible

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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