statistics: add better API and better logs for lock stats

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What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #46351

See #46768 (comment)

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

• Changed the tids to tidAndNames to make the relationship more explicit.
• Printed all table names.
• Stabilized the warning message.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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Codecov Report

Merging #47024 (3f8580b) into master (8d11a2f) will decrease coverage by 0.2902%.
Report is 13 commits behind head on master.
The diff coverage is 98.3333%.

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• 2023-09-18 08:05:54.877288205 +0000 UTC m=+504720.844876255: ☑️ agreed by hawkingrei.
• 2023-09-19 03:46:49.217502295 +0000 UTC m=+575575.185090344: ☑️ agreed by time-and-fate.

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