ddl: fix create and alter check constraints problems (#47633)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #47633

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #47567 close #47631 close #47632

It seems also close #44737

Problem Summary:

What is changed and how it works?

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Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
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Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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fix create and alter check constraints problems.

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• 2024-02-01 08:43:37.570980776 +0000 UTC m=+1641459.135278503: ☑️ agreed by fzzf678.
• 2024-02-01 08:44:43.360983846 +0000 UTC m=+1641524.925281551: ☑️ agreed by CbcWestwolf.

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