statistics: handle the prune mode correctly in the refresher (#57096)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #57096, #57113, #57184, #57194

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #57168

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

When checking the prune mode, we need to ensure that we have loaded the latest variable value. However, directly using the system session pool does not work, as it requires manual updates to obtain the latest global variable value.

In this PR, I utilized the session context from the caller that has already updated the session, allowing us to correctly retrieve the prune mode.

For earlier versions of TiDB, this issue did not occur because we did not use this session to retrieve the global variable in those versions.

Additionally, I added a test case for the queue to verify the handling of DML changes for partitioned tables.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
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  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2024-11-07 10:53:22.622891935 +0000 UTC m=+1124715.462047475: ☑️ agreed by Rustin170506.
• 2024-11-07 12:14:58.58932776 +0000 UTC m=+1129611.428483304: ☑️ agreed by qw4990.

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