ddl: use a global owner manager instance for DDL, to avoid owner change (#57179)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #57179

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #57185

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

• use a global owner manager instance for DDL, to avoid owner change during bootstrap, we want it stable. or change back to older version node after upgrade, we want the owner stick on the newer version node.
• fix br owner manager not closed
• fix br/bindinfo owner manager report 'the client connection is closing' as the campaign loop exit after client close

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

bootstrap with 3 TiDB of this PR, success, and the owner on first Domain start is still the owner after second start.

upgrade from a 3 TiDB cluster of version v8.1.1, success, and after upgrade, the newer version node is still the owner

• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2024-11-11 05:24:15.277122488 +0000 UTC m=+247417.467991472: ☑️ agreed by D3Hunter.
• 2024-11-11 05:25:52.532066476 +0000 UTC m=+247514.722935473: ☑️ agreed by tiancaiamao.

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This pull-request has been approved by: D3Hunter, Leavrth, tiancaiamao, yudongusa

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[D3Hunter]

manually pick #57198 to pass CI