simple (ticdc): add bootstrap sending function configuration

[asddongmen]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #9898

What is changed and how it works?

Bootstrap message is sent by the following principles:

• For each table, before sending the first DML message, send the corresponding Bootstrap message.
• For each table, once sending N messages, send one bootstrap message periodically. The messages number N can be configured by sink.send-bootstrap-in-msg-count.
• For each table, if no bootstrap message is sent in the last M seconds, send one bootstrap message. The interval M can be configured by sink.send-bootstrap-interval-in-sec.
• If a table has not received any new DML messages for 30 minutes, it will be considered inactive. We will stop sending Bootstrap events for this table until a new DML event for the table occurs.
• Bootstrap messages are dispatched to the all partition by default. This behavior can be controlled by sink.send-bootstrap-to-all-partition, if it is set to false, Bootstrap messages will be sent to the first partition.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

Release note

None

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• 2024-01-18 08:06:12.631141434 +0000 UTC m=+429614.195439140: ☑️ agreed by sdojjy.
• 2024-01-19 06:03:46.993618612 +0000 UTC m=+508668.557916328: ☑️ agreed by 3AceShowHand.

[asddongmen]

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