[DNM] kafka(ticdc): sarama do not retry if produce message failed

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What problem does this PR solve?

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What is changed and how it works?

• config.Net.MaxOpenRequest is set to 1
• config.Producer.Retry.Max is set to 0, to disable the internal retry mechanism

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