kv/client: don't resolve lock immediately after a region is initialized (#2235)

[ti-chi-bot]

This is an automated cherry-pick of #2235

What problem does this PR solve?

Fix #2188

What is changed and how it works?

Introduce a penalty mechanism

• If TiCDC keeps receiving unchanged resolved-ts, increase the penalty.
• If TiCDC receives a new resolved ts, reset the penalty to zero
• Only resolve ts if the penalty is larger than threshold

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test

Release note

• Don't resolve lock immediately after a region is initialized.

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[amyangfei]

/merge

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This pull request has been accepted and is ready to merge.

Commit hash: a4acbe9

[overvenus]

/run-kafka-tests