sink: set max-message-bytes to initialize producer. (#3080)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #3080

What problem does this PR solve?

Close #3081

This is a fix after #3002.

In #3002, we set 512M as the minimum max-message-size to initialize the sarama producer, which would batch small message then larger than broker's message.max.bytes, make the message failed to send.

If the user does not pass max-message-bytes when creating then changefeed, the producer use 512M, it's very likely larger than the broker's value. so we have to set the default value smaller, to 1M.

Also, set encoder's defaultMaxMessageBytes to 1M, to prevent encoded message too large, then reject by the client.

What is changed and how it works?

• use custom max-message-size to initialize the producer.
• set default MaxMessageSize to 1M.

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change Kafka sink default `MaxMessageBytes` to 1MB.

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[3AceShowHand]

/run-integration-tests
/run-kafka-tests

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Codecov Report

Merging #3106 (36841c2) into release-4.0 (753073a) will increase coverage by 3.4317%.
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[amyangfei]

/merge

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Commit hash: 36841c2